Sunday, September 28, 2008

rebuttle for love


Love is not a burden, it is not something to dread. Love is a great thing to have and experience. It is not something to make you miserable if you do not have it. If you have it then, great. But if you do not have it is not supposed to make you feel like life has no meaning. When people love each other they want to do things for mate, they do not think of it has a burden because when you love someone you want to do things for them, you want to make them happy because you love them and you want to let them know that you love them. Love is not something you experience for a short amount of time and then get bored and sick of it, and it just ends. It is something that you can enjoy for years, for the rest of your life.

Love takes time, so if you are willing to wait that time to get love, you should know that love is time, love is not short, it can last a life time. When you are married you are not just stuck with them and you get fed up with or bored with your relationship and all love and intimacy gradually declines, now some marriages unfortunately do come upon that, but just because some do does not mean that all do. A couple can enjoy being with each other for life and can show it. It is capable to have a long-lasting, intimate, fun relationship. My parents are one example of that. My parents have been together 25 years and married for 21 and to this day they still have all the love in the world for each other. They still have fun with each other, they still laugh, you can still see the love they have for each other. They also, like doing things for each other and to this day still enjoy making the other happy. My parents and plenty others out there feel this way have that. They see love as a gift not a burden, and that how it is.

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